It's good to raise awareness, but with 12 months in the year, I find it a little hard to focus on three major issues all in one month. Nonetheless, they are all worth being aware of, and doing something about, so here we go.
Breast Cancer.
Need I say more? We all either have experienced dealing with breast cancer, or know someone who has. 1 in 8 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime. I find it so sad, that so many loose their battle with breast cancer, when this is one cancer that is almost 100% curable, if caught early enough. Early detection remains the key. Get your mammograms done regularly. Do your self exam monthly. Report any changes to your health professional. Better safe than sorry!
There is a wealth of information on line regarding breast cancer, exam options and treatment; Susan G. Komen, NBCC, American Cancer Society are some. Most importantly though, I find, is the continued work for a cure. Please continue donating to the organizations that work so hard to get us there!
Bullying Prevention
According to the National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN), "bullying can be verbal, physical, or via the Internet. It can
severely affect the victim's self-image, social interactions, and
school performance, often leading to insecurity, lack of self-esteem,
and depression in adulthood. School dropout rates and absences among
victims of bullying are much higher than among other students.
Studies
have shown that children who have been identified as a bully by age
eight are six times more likely to have a criminal conviction by age 24.
Children who are bullies may continue to be bullies as adults, and are
more prone to becoming child and spouse abusers."
As a parent, I find it my duty to make sure my children do not engage in any form of bullying, and that they learn to stand up for those who are victims. We cannot rely on school personnel to do this. It is our job as parents to teach our kids tolerance and decency in their dealings with others. Let's make sure we all do our part! For more information, NCTSN has a listing of resources for preteens/teens, parents, health professionals, school personnel and law enforcement personnel here. I would also encourage you to stop by a Facebook Page; Stop Bullying: Speak Up! both to sign the pledge to stop bullying and for more information on what you can do.
And last, but not least; Domestic Violence
It is almost sad that this is still such a major problem, that we need a whole month dedicated to the awareness of it, and another toward teen dating abuse. But fact is, thousands of women and children live every day in fear. Sadly, no one is better at hiding the symptoms of abuse, than the victims themselves. If the awareness month does nothing else but get the message out to the victims that being abused is not their fault, and they do not deserve it, then much has been accomplished.
What more can we do? Again, there is a wealth of information on line. Break the Cycle is one of the organizations that work diligently to end domestic abuse, prevent teen dating abuse and create healthy relationships. You can find more information about them here.
Besides joining this group, or any other organization that works to end domestic violence, I think these are our main responsibilities:
- Don't be blind towards symptoms of abuse in your own circle of friends and/or family - and dare to speak up when you see it.
- Teach our children that it is never OK to hit/slap/push or mistreat in any other way their girlfriend/boyfriend - or to be treated that way. No one who loves you, mistreats you in that manner.
Although very different issues, the one thing we can do with regards to all three topics, is care for one another. Encourage your friends/family members to get their exams, and be there for those who are battling cancer. Stand up against bullying and teach your children to do the same. And lastly, never accept abuse - not towards yourself, not towards your children, not towards your friends and family. When you see or suspect it, help them get help!
